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Sex as a bargaining chip

Sex is becoming more and more valued; we know a lot of cases in which sex appears as a bargaining chip.

In previous articles, we have read some cases which imply this business. For example, would you dare to sell your virginity?. We also saw a case in which sex was a very important business in the 2014 FIFA World Cup Brazil. Another obvious example is what happens in our directory. A lot of escorts offer sex or other services in exchange for money. These are some of the examples in which sex is used as a bargaining chip. Since antic time sex has been a very important tool, this is because sex produces relax, pleasure and joy. 

Some News seen recently proves that fact. The young and Chinese Ju Peng, who is 19 years old, wanted to travel in different cities of her country. She offered to spend a night with a man who wanted her to provide an accommodation in his house, apart from paying her all her expenditures path and the accommodation.

In many occasions we have travelled and stayed in a friend or fellow’s house, we have even traveled and stayed in a familiar domicile. But there are other occasions in which we travel in a place where we do not know anybody. There exist different possibilities such as exchange your house with a family who wants to travel to your town or let an empty place in your flat for free for someone who wants to spend some days in your zone. So that, you can travel and have an accommodation for free.

Nevertheless, it seems that Ju Peng has preferred to use her enchantments as a bargaining chip in order to travel for free to the cities she pleases. This young student announced her intentions in the social network “Wiedo” with a title “temporal boyfriends”.

Ju Peng has also demanded other conditions apart from paying her travel and her accommodation. She also has put some other conditions to her possible “temporal boyfriends”. She also requires men with less than 30 years old and whose height must be more than 1, 75 meters, apart from another condition, they must be rich, of course. She has been criticized for that, but she defends herself by saying that it is another solution to travel for free. Then, this young girl offers sex and company for travel for free

According to Ju Peng, it is the only way to discover the East of China and due to her lack of money she does not see any harm in doing this type of exchange.

This case can remind us of that young American girl who decided to search a rich enterpriser in a forum. She published an advertisement about her enchantments and demanding very high requirements such as, an enterpriser whose income was more than 500 thousand dollars per year. She also asked for an enterpriser that could pay all her whims. Those fulfilled conditions will be exchanged for her marriage with him.

This young girl received an answer from an enterpriser but this was not precisely the answer she was expecting. In any case, Ju Peng and this American girl achieved or must have achieved what they were asking for. As we have said before... Sex is becoming more and more valued.

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In this time of crisis that we have been dragging, and with the great fall that the tax collection has suffered, which has caused debates on the sustainability of our pension system and its reform, the financing deficit of the autonomous communities and municipalities have derived in an asphyxiating fiscal pressure. Thus, the debate on the legalization of prostitution.

To illustrate the situation better, we will see the numbers that the prostitution sector manages. The estimated amount of this is 3.500 million euros per year, which represents 0.35% of the national GDP. To give you an idea, this supposes a volume similar to the footwear industry in Spain or to the contribution of the city of Malaga.

Have in mind that in Spain there are about 100,000 escorts, although only 20% of these escorts girls are Spanish. It is estimated that 39% of Spaniards have paid for having sex ever, with an average annual expenditure of 1,530 euros. That is, we spend much more on sex than on car insurance, buying fruit or vegetables. The 66% of the escorts girls practice in a brothel, to compare with the remaining 33%, that does it in the street.

To end with this battery of data, only 5% are luxury escorts. Now is when the question arises, should we regulate the sector? This is one of the largest money movements in the country, which could contribute to the desired increase in tax collection.

Why is it legal to sell tobacco if it generates thousands of deaths and illnesses a year, spending millions of euros on campaigns to stop smoking and generates a huge expenditure on public health? The tax reason seems enough to allow it to be legal to smoke. Now we come to see, briefly, the Dutch model, where prostitution was legalized in the year 2000 and already have extensive experience.

In the Netherlands, the sector moves the 2,500 million euros, that is to say to 0.4% of the GDP, surpassing to the mythical Dutch cheese sector. The legalization of prostitution was coming at the same time than laws against sexual abuse and protection of minors. Prostitution has been banned on the streets and can only be done in rooms equipped for this purpose, each escort girl has to pay for private health insurance, like any Dutch worker. As taxes are paid for this activity, the system is controlled through a licensing system, and final regulation is given to the cities. At the sametime than this legalization, any means of sexual exploitation is considered an offense punishable by imprisonment and the legal age for engaging in prostitution was raised from 18 to 21.

Clubs, escorts girls' agencies, X rooms, couples bars, or prostitution in private homes are allowed and regulated by a licensing system, and only in 13 Dutch cities are the famous showcases allowed, such as the famous of the Red Light district of Amsterdam.

Any companion has the right for social and health care and even to participate in a program of social reintegration for those who want to abandon prostitution, and municipalities are obliged to guarantee these rights as issuers of the corresponding licenses.

With all these data and comparing the two models, you can see the similarity of figures between countries, but while in Holland they contribute as another sector and are protected by law, having the right to social benefits and pensions, in Spain, escorts and prostitutes are left in the helplessness and at the mercy of mafias and sexual exploiters.

For all this, it would be useful to reflect deeply on whether the legalization of the sector is more convenient for all. .