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The prostitution reality

Many prostitutes feel alone when lying about their job to their parents, couples or even their offspring. They don't use to explain how they earn money.

A steady source of income which have to hide, justify revenues of money that make prostitutes feel bad because they do not want to be judged, so they do not tell the truth. For that reason they use to invent some excuses to justify this to their family or their own children. At the moment when they decide to tell the truth his family, is when they finally feel released.

Talking about clients prostitutes features we can assure that most of them pursuit rather love than sex. Prostitutes when planning the appointment with the customer , always decide and manage the arrangement. The statement "A prostitute is a piece of meat with eyes lying on a bed and the customer can do with them whatever they want " is completely false. In addition prostitutes can decide which customer will they chose, what rates they will apply to the services to offer, furthermore, if the customer does not accept these conditions she can decide not giving the service.

Referring to the role in society and the legal framework , prostitutes suffer some injustices by the government. Since being accepted as self-employed , and at the same time public institutions do some campaigns against their job, they denigrate their body against prostitutes in general.

Wanting to remove prostitutes from the streets it forces many women working in private apartments, clubs, agencies ... which is more harmful for prostitutes because they lose part of their independence.

It is said that prostitutes are whores, feminist, empowered ... though they are identified as women wearing the reins of the economy, his sexuality and his life.

Many feminists are really struggling against labor, political and social rights of an entire group of women. Prostitutes are identified as feminists because they fight for their social, political and labor rights. The much-repeated mantra is that prostitutes are mistreated, raped and humiliated is absolutely false. But nevertheless, many prostitutes have felt humiliated and raped by the comments of many feminists.

A manifest was made by several rights for prostitutes:

• Guarantee the rights of all those involved in prostitution. As the right to emigrate, have freedom of movement and even to open their own businesses.

• Prostitution is recognized as a legitimate economic activity.

• The dignity of prostitutes and their ability to decide has to be respected and recognized. Remember that offensive laws against prostitutes and clients all that they achieve are worsening conditions during services. Treatment more quickly and clandestine type appear, appearing faster services so worse treatment of prostitutes work.

• Creating a public space for prostitution, like the red light district of Amsterdam. In which they can freely engage in prostitution and with good hygiene, security and tranquility. The place to locate this public area, could be in connection with the negotiation between prostitutes and neighbours.

• Strongly pursue the gangs that force and force many women into prostitution.

• Help financially and materials, also giving alternative employment to all those who choose to leave prostitution. Being helped and not stigmatized as prostitutes, thereby hampering their working carrer.



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In this time of crisis that we have been dragging, and with the great fall that the tax collection has suffered, which has caused debates on the sustainability of our pension system and its reform, the financing deficit of the autonomous communities and municipalities have derived in an asphyxiating fiscal pressure. Thus, the debate on the legalization of prostitution.

To illustrate the situation better, we will see the numbers that the prostitution sector manages. The estimated amount of this is 3.500 million euros per year, which represents 0.35% of the national GDP. To give you an idea, this supposes a volume similar to the footwear industry in Spain or to the contribution of the city of Malaga.

Have in mind that in Spain there are about 100,000 escorts, although only 20% of these escorts girls are Spanish. It is estimated that 39% of Spaniards have paid for having sex ever, with an average annual expenditure of 1,530 euros. That is, we spend much more on sex than on car insurance, buying fruit or vegetables. The 66% of the escorts girls practice in a brothel, to compare with the remaining 33%, that does it in the street.

To end with this battery of data, only 5% are luxury escorts. Now is when the question arises, should we regulate the sector? This is one of the largest money movements in the country, which could contribute to the desired increase in tax collection.

Why is it legal to sell tobacco if it generates thousands of deaths and illnesses a year, spending millions of euros on campaigns to stop smoking and generates a huge expenditure on public health? The tax reason seems enough to allow it to be legal to smoke. Now we come to see, briefly, the Dutch model, where prostitution was legalized in the year 2000 and already have extensive experience.

In the Netherlands, the sector moves the 2,500 million euros, that is to say to 0.4% of the GDP, surpassing to the mythical Dutch cheese sector. The legalization of prostitution was coming at the same time than laws against sexual abuse and protection of minors. Prostitution has been banned on the streets and can only be done in rooms equipped for this purpose, each escort girl has to pay for private health insurance, like any Dutch worker. As taxes are paid for this activity, the system is controlled through a licensing system, and final regulation is given to the cities. At the sametime than this legalization, any means of sexual exploitation is considered an offense punishable by imprisonment and the legal age for engaging in prostitution was raised from 18 to 21.

Clubs, escorts girls' agencies, X rooms, couples bars, or prostitution in private homes are allowed and regulated by a licensing system, and only in 13 Dutch cities are the famous showcases allowed, such as the famous of the Red Light district of Amsterdam.

Any companion has the right for social and health care and even to participate in a program of social reintegration for those who want to abandon prostitution, and municipalities are obliged to guarantee these rights as issuers of the corresponding licenses.

With all these data and comparing the two models, you can see the similarity of figures between countries, but while in Holland they contribute as another sector and are protected by law, having the right to social benefits and pensions, in Spain, escorts and prostitutes are left in the helplessness and at the mercy of mafias and sexual exploiters.

For all this, it would be useful to reflect deeply on whether the legalization of the sector is more convenient for all. .