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Be the lover or the wife

It is more and more common to begin affairs and have a lover. Nowadays love relationships have changed and it is not strange to find infidelities. However, this will depend on the person and on the couple, as always.

A long love relationship usually ends with routine; this happens only when the problems between the couple do not heal or when they do not rekindle the “flame of love”. One of the main reasons couples are breaking up is because of the routine. Others seem to work but many of them hide affairs and lovers.

Although these affairs are done also by women, we will describe this fact from the point of view of men.

There exist different kinds of affair situations. The most known affair is the secretary or workmate case. That is because while you are working hours and hours with that person it can start an emotional bond. Most of these types of affairs are only for vice and sex. You can play sex and morbid games with the secretary at the office, or be excited by the fact that everybody is in a meeting while you are having sex with her.

On the other hand, the lover can also be a neighbor, a family’s friend, the sister of your wife, a mother from your son’s friend, or an escort.

There are a lot of many different possibilities to have a craze adventure, many of them are unimaginable.

Most of the time lovers suffer more than wives, unless the wife knows it.

If the affair is kept as a secret the wife will be able to deal with that life of lies. Lovers for example usually know the men’s family situation, so that the lover will try to persuade him to leave his family or at least his wife. This will be a hard decision for him to accomplish, it all will depend on the type of relationship that he would maintain with his wife. The main factors that will determine this decision are the amount of years the couple have been together, his offspring, the economic situation, his work, the patrimony and many more.

Normally, the husband is not used to leaving his relationship for a lover. Many times the husband will break up with the lover and the wife will never notice. But it can also happen the other way round, his wife can find out the whole affair and then is she who breaks up with her husband. As a consequence the husband will have no other opportunity than strengthen his relationship with the lover.

Up to now, we have talked about what in a long, consolidate relationship usually happens, but the same can occur with courtship relationships. In this case there are fewer responsibilities with the relationship you are in so there is not such a problem to break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend; it is easier to end with your partner. It is also true that the fact you are beginning to deepen in that world of love and relationships it is more justifiable to do this kind of treacheries. Maybe in a long period of time the one who was at first your lover become your wife and you have a consolidated marriage. 



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In this time of crisis that we have been dragging, and with the great fall that the tax collection has suffered, which has caused debates on the sustainability of our pension system and its reform, the financing deficit of the autonomous communities and municipalities have derived in an asphyxiating fiscal pressure. Thus, the debate on the legalization of prostitution.

To illustrate the situation better, we will see the numbers that the prostitution sector manages. The estimated amount of this is 3.500 million euros per year, which represents 0.35% of the national GDP. To give you an idea, this supposes a volume similar to the footwear industry in Spain or to the contribution of the city of Malaga.

Have in mind that in Spain there are about 100,000 escorts, although only 20% of these escorts girls are Spanish. It is estimated that 39% of Spaniards have paid for having sex ever, with an average annual expenditure of 1,530 euros. That is, we spend much more on sex than on car insurance, buying fruit or vegetables. The 66% of the escorts girls practice in a brothel, to compare with the remaining 33%, that does it in the street.

To end with this battery of data, only 5% are luxury escorts. Now is when the question arises, should we regulate the sector? This is one of the largest money movements in the country, which could contribute to the desired increase in tax collection.

Why is it legal to sell tobacco if it generates thousands of deaths and illnesses a year, spending millions of euros on campaigns to stop smoking and generates a huge expenditure on public health? The tax reason seems enough to allow it to be legal to smoke. Now we come to see, briefly, the Dutch model, where prostitution was legalized in the year 2000 and already have extensive experience.

In the Netherlands, the sector moves the 2,500 million euros, that is to say to 0.4% of the GDP, surpassing to the mythical Dutch cheese sector. The legalization of prostitution was coming at the same time than laws against sexual abuse and protection of minors. Prostitution has been banned on the streets and can only be done in rooms equipped for this purpose, each escort girl has to pay for private health insurance, like any Dutch worker. As taxes are paid for this activity, the system is controlled through a licensing system, and final regulation is given to the cities. At the sametime than this legalization, any means of sexual exploitation is considered an offense punishable by imprisonment and the legal age for engaging in prostitution was raised from 18 to 21.

Clubs, escorts girls' agencies, X rooms, couples bars, or prostitution in private homes are allowed and regulated by a licensing system, and only in 13 Dutch cities are the famous showcases allowed, such as the famous of the Red Light district of Amsterdam.

Any companion has the right for social and health care and even to participate in a program of social reintegration for those who want to abandon prostitution, and municipalities are obliged to guarantee these rights as issuers of the corresponding licenses.

With all these data and comparing the two models, you can see the similarity of figures between countries, but while in Holland they contribute as another sector and are protected by law, having the right to social benefits and pensions, in Spain, escorts and prostitutes are left in the helplessness and at the mercy of mafias and sexual exploiters.

For all this, it would be useful to reflect deeply on whether the legalization of the sector is more convenient for all. .