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To be the lover or to be the husband

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The last article we wrote we talked about infidelity from the men’s position.

In this occasion, we will talk about unfaithful women and which is the role that the husband or the lover occupy.

We must admit that the figure’s men as unfaithful is more socially seeing than women, However, some tests and studies prove that women are much more unfaithful than we think. The difference between each is other is that men are clumsier when they have to hide an infidelity. Conversely, women know how to use their weapons in order to not be discovered by them. Moreover, most of the occasions men do not never realize about that.

From the point of view of women who are unfaithful we would say that their main reason is the routine, as it happens in the case of men who are also unfaithful. They start to get bored from men who don’t offer them new things to live and share. So, they begin to search another man who can offer much more than their actual partner.

Generally, they prefer bachelor and young men with the enough energy to make them enjoy new experiences they ‘ve never lived from a long time. –however, they would prefer to continue their former relationship if they have children.

For women to maintain a familiar, economic and patrimonial stability is very important. Especially children will be the most important, because the fact this situation may affect their children and derive into personal problems with them it is something that women could not stand, the fact that she can break up with their father to be with another man. Then, because it is more important their children’s welfare the 60% of women do not change their relationship for a lover.

On the other hand, if they do not have children but they share stability it will be also important for them in order to make the final decision. If the have stability with their actual partner they will choose him, but if the lover also offers stability to them they will, in many occasions, choose their lover.

In normal conditions, the lover would be for women a pastime very well used. Actually, the lover without knowing will help her in order to get a better relationship with her husband, and that her relationship would work better than before.

In other cases, there also exist women who let their husband in order to begin a relationship with their partner, In these cases, it can be because their actual husband do not treat them as it should be. Another situation can be given because both of them have their husband and wife and they agree to risk everything to begin something new together.

There exist different dangers in breaking their relationship up with their husbands. In the case her ex-husband is an abuser he will follow her with no good intentions. There exist also the emotional blackmail. For example the children’s theme, The husband knows it is a delicate theme in which he can play on in order her to go back to him. This last emotional blackmail would be used also in order to madly hurt her now ex-wife. The same can occur the other way round, but it is less frequent.

So that, women have more to lose if they want to leave her husband, that is the reason why they do not usually do that. There are other patriarchal issues that do not let women do what they really want to do.



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In this time of crisis that we have been dragging, and with the great fall that the tax collection has suffered, which has caused debates on the sustainability of our pension system and its reform, the financing deficit of the autonomous communities and municipalities have derived in an asphyxiating fiscal pressure. Thus, the debate on the legalization of prostitution.

To illustrate the situation better, we will see the numbers that the prostitution sector manages. The estimated amount of this is 3.500 million euros per year, which represents 0.35% of the national GDP. To give you an idea, this supposes a volume similar to the footwear industry in Spain or to the contribution of the city of Malaga.

Have in mind that in Spain there are about 100,000 escorts, although only 20% of these escorts girls are Spanish. It is estimated that 39% of Spaniards have paid for having sex ever, with an average annual expenditure of 1,530 euros. That is, we spend much more on sex than on car insurance, buying fruit or vegetables. The 66% of the escorts girls practice in a brothel, to compare with the remaining 33%, that does it in the street.

To end with this battery of data, only 5% are luxury escorts. Now is when the question arises, should we regulate the sector? This is one of the largest money movements in the country, which could contribute to the desired increase in tax collection.

Why is it legal to sell tobacco if it generates thousands of deaths and illnesses a year, spending millions of euros on campaigns to stop smoking and generates a huge expenditure on public health? The tax reason seems enough to allow it to be legal to smoke. Now we come to see, briefly, the Dutch model, where prostitution was legalized in the year 2000 and already have extensive experience.

In the Netherlands, the sector moves the 2,500 million euros, that is to say to 0.4% of the GDP, surpassing to the mythical Dutch cheese sector. The legalization of prostitution was coming at the same time than laws against sexual abuse and protection of minors. Prostitution has been banned on the streets and can only be done in rooms equipped for this purpose, each escort girl has to pay for private health insurance, like any Dutch worker. As taxes are paid for this activity, the system is controlled through a licensing system, and final regulation is given to the cities. At the sametime than this legalization, any means of sexual exploitation is considered an offense punishable by imprisonment and the legal age for engaging in prostitution was raised from 18 to 21.

Clubs, escorts girls' agencies, X rooms, couples bars, or prostitution in private homes are allowed and regulated by a licensing system, and only in 13 Dutch cities are the famous showcases allowed, such as the famous of the Red Light district of Amsterdam.

Any companion has the right for social and health care and even to participate in a program of social reintegration for those who want to abandon prostitution, and municipalities are obliged to guarantee these rights as issuers of the corresponding licenses.

With all these data and comparing the two models, you can see the similarity of figures between countries, but while in Holland they contribute as another sector and are protected by law, having the right to social benefits and pensions, in Spain, escorts and prostitutes are left in the helplessness and at the mercy of mafias and sexual exploiters.

For all this, it would be useful to reflect deeply on whether the legalization of the sector is more convenient for all. .